His results are spotty and time consuming, and he does a lot of things wrong. This is because he can look back over the last several weeks or months and see some results.The women he has sex with range from low-average to the occasional hottie. They are also susceptible to oneitis when they have sex with a really hot woman, as I discussed in item #9 here.Putting in the numbers starts to get to them, and when women don’t play ball the way the men expect, these men often get upset.You are an intermediate if some of the following conditions describe you: .One notch above these guys are extroverted virgins who’ve never had sex, but have lots of female friends and have never learned how to get out of friend zone.At the other end of the spectrum, you’ve got beginners who’ve had sex with a few women, perhaps five or six, or maybe even ten if they’re older, but have no actual skill enabling them to go out into the world and pull new women into their sex life with any predictable reliability.I’m sure other dating experts / PUA gurus will have definitions for these three terms that may look different from mine, and that’s fine.I’m just here to tell you what these three terms mean to me when I happen to use them in my writings.
Most beginners tend to come in two flavors; young guys who haven’t had a lot of woman experience yet, and older guys who are just out of a long-term relationship or divorce, and who are very out of practice.Being at the intermediate level is pretty exciting, at least most of the time.For the first time in your life, you’re actually having sex with multiple women, and many of them are actually pretty cute or hot.The only sex they’ve received thus far in their life is the sex that dropped into their laps through women they met organically at their work, through family, school, or their social circles.Many beginners have reached the point where they can meet girls and get first dates or day2 meets (through night game, daygame, or online dating), but they don’t yet have the balls and/or the skill to close the deal with any predictability. My boyfriend is 20, so it's dubious how relevant my experience is), but he is the exception.