Note that for the sake of this text, I use nerd and geek interchangeably.If you are highly intellectual, socially awkward person, you are likely to benefit from this blog post series.If you are barely not a virgin, you may be ahead of this intellectual cohort.From my anecdata, the main pain points are: I will go how to address these points, often starting from underlying causes.Just reading this blog post beyond the 140 character baseline is a good indicator that you may like its content. In short, nerds are typically defined as having combination of intelligence, obsession and social awkwardness (as covered in this classic Venn diagram).
data, according to the Sex by Numbers credibility scale.) So, if you are a virgin, you are still in a good company!
Most of advice here will be focused how to get to this moment.
Also, if you are on the recipient side of a nerd’s (however clumsy) courtship, I hope that you will learn a bit about his POV and be able to help him (whether it means taking command or turning him down in a clear but graceful way).
At the same time, overthinking and being a disembodied brain on a stick makes dating much harder.
Don’t get me wrong - witty humour and an extensive vocabulary may help a lot, as well as some possible side-effects (such as good social standing or popularity). Your intellect makes some of tasks way easier, but one of the key Smart Guy Productivity Pitfalls is to use it in lieu of effort.