Trust me, if she’s into it, she’ll be kissing you back.Also: as a general rule, unless she’s been giving you unmistakable signs of sexual interest – that is, to the level of running her hands down the front of your pants – no tongue on the first kiss. First of all: always carry a pack of gum with you on a date.Girls Guys Community Q&A If you haven't yet experienced your first kiss, it can be a daunting challenge.
Quit worrying trying to recreate a scene from a movie and just be in the goddamned moment. This corresponds rather well with other places where I’ve seen the topic come up (Google “Ask for a kiss” and do your own research): a majority of an incredibly unscientific sampling of women seem to prefer that men make the move rather than ask for it.
When you’re asking the question of “When do you kiss her”, you’re asking the wrong question.
And critically, I’ve learned the most important part about the first kiss.
Generally, I’m a fan of just closing the distance and kissing her.
Sometimes there’s a one-finger stroke of the cheek, sometimes touching the chin.